chronic pain/fibromyalgia · hair · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

Racilious Talks "Nappy" Hair

I’ve written about my hair before but never in such depth as Latoya Peterson’s “Nappily Ever After? Not quite” on the Racialicious blog. It’s a great post. All you straight-haired folks might learn something. I can’t tell you the amount of times that Jews make comments about my hair. Luckily, very, very few have been… Continue reading Racilious Talks "Nappy" Hair

Christmas · chronic pain/fibromyalgia · culture/multiculturalism · friends · hanukkah · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · race/racism · shopping · wedding

The Worst Guest in the World

Hello, it’s me, the self-described worst guest in the world! And I’ve just had a long time friendship end over it. But this isn’t just the story of that loss or how I’ve come to expect the worst. As a recent convert, I’ve blogged before about how I’ve been inappropriate countless times at the Shabbos… Continue reading The Worst Guest in the World

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · culture/multiculturalism · Hispanics/Latinos · news · religion · writing

Miracles, miracles, everywhere…

According to a post on Vivir Latino, a blog I just discovered, “a study released by the America Association of Retired People (AARP), at least 82% of Latinos 45 and older do.” The post says, “[The study] sort of plays to the stereotype of Latino’s faith as being more “folky” and less real and respectable.”… Continue reading Miracles, miracles, everywhere…

books and reading · chronic pain/fibromyalgia · marriage · television

Is Writing My Addiction?

The other day it occurred to me that writing might be an addiction. Like any good addiction, I get a heady high from doing it. When I’m really high from it, I have trouble sleeping and I even wake up from dreams where I’ve been writing or thinking about writing. When I’m in that zone,… Continue reading Is Writing My Addiction?

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · food · hanukkah · medications

Extremely Sensitive: Treating My Fibromyalgia

No more milkshakes for me! A teacher I had for a nutrition class struggled with different health problems. She likened herself to the canary sent down to the mines because she was especially sensitive to everything. Because fibromyalgia makes absolutely no sense and some health professionals posit that it could the body’s response, some sort… Continue reading Extremely Sensitive: Treating My Fibromyalgia

birthday · chronic pain/fibromyalgia · depression · hair · happiness · Jesus · marriage · prayer · writing

Second Draft: A Survivor

I’m hoping to enter this piece in a contest or submit it to one of the magazines that it’s my goal to get my work in this year. I recently received a devastating rejection from one magazine. The editor was wonderful about it and she gave me a connection to another editor. We’ll see what… Continue reading Second Draft: A Survivor

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · Jesus · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · prayer · services

Working draft of ‘My Love/Hate Relationship with G-d’

Here’s a piece I’m still working on…. I’ve always had this intense relationship with G-d. I prayed all the time growing up. And I don’t just mean the on-my-knees “As I lay me down to sleep…” kind of prayer I was taught as a Catholic child or the structured three-times-a-day prayer that comes with being… Continue reading Working draft of ‘My Love/Hate Relationship with G-d’

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · culture/multiculturalism · hair · Hispanics/Latinos · Junot Diaz · Oscar Wao

The Oscar Wao Vocabulary Dictionary Glossary, You’re Welcome, Junot Diaz

I am sick of hearing people say they feel like they can’t understand “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” because of all those Spanish terms. Why didn’t Junot Diaz and his lovely publishers throw in some sort of glossary in the back? Just what were they thinking? We’ll never know. Luckily for all of… Continue reading The Oscar Wao Vocabulary Dictionary Glossary, You’re Welcome, Junot Diaz

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · writing

Trying not to burn the pasta

Aliza’s Long Day… My mission this week is to come up with a schedule for myself or at least some sort of routine that will be bedeviled by my fibromyalgia. I woke up so early this morning, I didn’t know what to do with myself. So, of course, I ended up watching Iron Man while… Continue reading Trying not to burn the pasta

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · culture/multiculturalism · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · race/racism · women/feminism

This is between me and G-d….

My post about Alysa Stanton, an African-American woman who had an Orthodox conversion and then decided to pursue a career in the Reform rabbinate, has sparked a lot of controversy off the blog. Does one Orthodox convert’s decision to leave Orthodoxy affect the way that other Orthodox converts are perceived? Should it? I think we… Continue reading This is between me and G-d….