Hispanics/Latinos · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

Benjamin Cardozo is not Hispanic

Here is an op-ed piece I had hoped to publish a couple of months back when the “Benjamin Cardozo is Hispanic” craze really started. Before I’d even heard Sonia Sotomayor was picked as the first Hispanic Supreme Court Justice nominee, I received an email from Jewish friends saying she was not. According to them, Benjamin… Continue reading Benjamin Cardozo is not Hispanic

culture/multiculturalism · hair · Hispanics/Latinos

Good Hair, Bad Hair.

Someone forwarded me the new trailer for Chris Rock’s “Good Hair” film which debuts in October. For the documentary, Rock takes us behind-the-scenes into the African-American hair industry.  But this story will definitely appeal to Hispanic women like myself who grew up being told they had “pelo malo” (bad hair) that was only “good hair”… Continue reading Good Hair, Bad Hair.

Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · parenting · writing

Honoring Yourself, Children (But not Child Abusers)

As usual I am floored by the responses to my writing, especially the responses to my piece on Aish.com. Unfortunately, some more than others. “David K , August 6, 2009: Easy for me to say but please try to love your mother. Any person with such mental illness needs love.” Right, uh, what? Why is… Continue reading Honoring Yourself, Children (But not Child Abusers)

books and reading · culture/multiculturalism · Hispanics/Latinos · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · television

Adios Querida? No, Adio Kerida

Scrambling for movies to watch this summer, someone suggested “Adio Kerida”. The documentary, produced and directed by anthropologist Ruth Behar, is about the search for identity and memory among Sephardic Jews with roots in Cuba.  Cuba as you know is just a hop, skip and a jump from my parents’ native Dominican Republic. Cuban food… Continue reading Adios Querida? No, Adio Kerida

books and reading · hair · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

All about Hair

Whoa, lots of posts about hair this week. If you enjoyed them, you can check out 51 other fun posts on hair by clicking on the “Hair” label at the bottom of this blog. Do you think I’ve got enough for a whole memoir on hair? It’s an idea. It does seem like people are… Continue reading All about Hair

food · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · Oxnard · vacation

Aliza Goes to Oxnard

My husband and I took a mini-trip up to Oxnard last week. I was not too happy about it. I mean, does Oxnard sound like an exciting place to you? I can’t think of an uglier name for a place right now. Worst of all, when we got there, we discovered our phones didn’t work.… Continue reading Aliza Goes to Oxnard

Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · New York · race/racism · writing

Reprint: Thoughts on Race and Gates

If you couldn’t get enough of my piece in last week’s Jewish Journal, then you can see it again at the Tolerant Nation blog “Thoughts on Race and Gates” and on Jewlicious. In case you don’t have the Jewish Journal in front of you, here are the Letters they received in response to my piece last week.… Continue reading Reprint: Thoughts on Race and Gates

hair · Hispanics/Latinos · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

The kosher version of "Bagels and Locks"

Yeah, it’s the kosher and uncircumcised version of “Bagels and Locks” at Chabad.org, my mini-memoir on my love/hate relationship with my hair. Even if you’ve read alternative versions at shorter lengths, you’ll get a kick out of this one. 

jews of color · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · race/racism

I do not live in a racist community

Whew, I need to get this off my chest. I have some bad news, folks. I do not live in a racist community. I live in a racist world. I spent a great deal of time in New York City and Los Angeles and I wouldn’t call either of the Jewish communities I live in… Continue reading I do not live in a racist community

books and reading · culture/multiculturalism · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · religion

Hilarious New Blog to Follow!

On a day-to-day basis, I am ALWAYS behind on my reading. I’m inundated by news articles, magazines, newsletters so it’s hard to keep up with blogs. Thankfully, Twitter followers also tip me off when there’s something I just HAVE TO read. @MaNishtana is new to Twittering and blogging he’s making quite a splash. The self-described… Continue reading Hilarious New Blog to Follow!