chronic pain/fibromyalgia · friends · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · prayer

Friends and Fibromyalgia

No one can really tell you how chronic illness will affect your life. It is a bumpy road with unexpected twists and turns. In so many ways, it has mirrored my road towards conversion. My day-to-day life has changed so much. I make blessings on food but it’s hard to hold a siddur (prayerbook) in… Continue reading Friends and Fibromyalgia

chronic pain/fibromyalgia · culture/multiculturalism · Italy · New York · travel

World Traveler

I was really nervous about spending a week with my in-laws in Italy. They’re great but we operate on alternative universes. My in-laws are fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants whereas I am plan, plan and plan some more. How was I going to relinquish control enough to do things their way without totally losing my marbles from the chaos… Continue reading World Traveler

Barack Obama · culture/multiculturalism · New York

Racism: Less than Subtle

Delonas, the cartoonist, said to CNN, “It’s absolutely friggin ridiculous. Do you really think I’m saying Obama should be shot? I didn’t see that in the cartoon. The chimpanzee was a major story in the Post. Every paper in New York, except The New York Times, covered the chimpanzee story. It’s just ridiculous. It’s about… Continue reading Racism: Less than Subtle

Hispanics/Latinos · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · New York · news · Riverdale

Venezuela and Jews

I’ve hesitated to write about the plight of Jews in Venezuela ever since the Israeli incursion into Gaza. I think part of that comes from shock. It’s hard for me to process such overt hate, such overwhelming anti-Semitism, sitting comfortably in front of my computer in New York. It is easy for me to see… Continue reading Venezuela and Jews

culture/multiculturalism · food · Italy · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · language · New York · parenting

Italy Trip Recap: The World in My Stomach

Who would have thought I would ever see the world? The first time I stepped out of the tristate area was to get married in a place I’d never been to before, Connecticut. Okay, actually, I had also been to Orlando, Florida to see Mickey with my aunt and even Pennsylvania to visit the Liberty… Continue reading Italy Trip Recap: The World in My Stomach

Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · language · Riverdale

"Anger Does Not Equal Hate"

A friend of mine told me that he is not going to let me become the stereotype of “the angry black woman.” (Don’t even get me started on how I feel about this stereotype.) This worries me. I worry that some of my blog readers already think it’s too late. I am very sensitive to… Continue reading "Anger Does Not Equal Hate"

Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

Top Ten, Baby!

Check out the Top Ten Articles on theJewishWoman.org. That’s mine at the top of the page!

chronic pain/fibromyalgia

Not a hypochondriac

I’ve never written a nasty email to a person in my life. That is, until now. As soon as Shabbos was over, I logged on to find an email from the National Fibromyalgia Association alerting me to a terrible Associated Press article on fibromyalgia. The article calls fibromyalgia, a “murky” ailment and then goes on… Continue reading Not a hypochondriac

books and reading · culture/multiculturalism · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · rabbi · religion

Jewish Guilt is Heavy

I recently finished “The Modern Jewish Girl’s Guide to Guilt.” I was interested in reading it for many reasons. I wanted to read about Judaism through the eyes of people who don’t live in the Orthodox world I live in. I wanted to understand Judaism through the eyes of secular Jews. I also wanted to… Continue reading Jewish Guilt is Heavy

hair · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism · prayer

Bless the hair, please.

This is what my husband hopes our kids will look like, of course. Confession: I get a kick out of saying blessings. It was one of the first things I started doing after I converted to Judaism. I like the idea of saying “Thank you, G-d” as often as I can, even when I’m not… Continue reading Bless the hair, please.