Hispanics/Latinos · Jews/Jewish/Judaism/Orthodox Judaism

You’re not Jewish so I can’t go out with you…

Asked out by one of the janitors at KJ today. Turns out he’s Dominican, from my parents’ hometown, too. He’s here in the states getting his MA in Computer Engineering and working two jobs to pay off school. Pretty admirable hardworking guy but NOT JEWISH. Pretty cute too but NOT JEWISH. He asked me out dancing—STOP LAUGHING IGOR! I told him that I couldn’t dance but I was mostly thrown off by the fact that I was being asked out. It still hasn’t hit me that I cannot date guys but that I can definitely plan on never dating someone that isn’t Jewish again. Whoa. I can’t go out with guys period until May but I can’t go out with guys that are blatantly not Jewish right? But will Jewish guys want to go out with me? Yes, I’ve dated two Jewish guys before but they both were pining for the perfect Jewish (white) woman.

2 thoughts on “You’re not Jewish so I can’t go out with you…

  1. Dear Sister,As an independant non-conformist I had a lot of difficulty in finding my soulmate who’se also an independant non-conformist. I fully understand your feelings … just remember your soulmate, whoever he is is out there waiting to meet you … so don’t loose hope and put your trust in God our Creator that he’ll lead you on the right road to finding your true love …Alisa

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